Kinda upset

This is my husbands and my first baby. We are absolutely excited. I’m 17 weeks + 3 days and our due date is August 4th. I’ve had 4 people tell me that I didn’t plan this pregnancy very well, and so on because I’ll be pregnant throughout the heat of the summer. Who cares? It’s a baby. I’ll deal with the heat but to tell me I didn’t do very well at planning is rude. What am I supposed to do? Skip a few months during TTC so I wouldn’t have a baby in the summer time? Also people have told me that I’m boring now because I won’t drink with them. IM PREGNANT! I’m not going to drink, what’s wrong with that? Obviously I need different people in my life if bringing a baby into this world is wrong.