In a bit of a dilemma...

My husband's 34th birthday is in November and he's always wanted a surprise party. I want to do it for him this year because...

1. He wont be expecting it for his 34th birthday

2. Hes had a hard year with health issues, including an amputation.

3. Hes just an awesome hubby and father and i loves him

Only thing is i want to do a surprise party for my parents 30th anniversary. Their anniversary is 4 days before his birthday.

Here's the predicament...

I can only afford one party. The one for my hubby is easier to organize and will be cheaper, but my parents only get one 30th anniversary. I have a brother that can help with the cost of this one, but he is awful at planning and being organized.

So help?