My fiancé and I have been together for 7.5 years since we were in high school. We have a one year old son and I am pregnant with our second. He is super close with his family and I’m not really that close with mine. I have a really shitty relationship with my mom she has an undiagnosed mental issue (I think she is schizophrenic or manic deprive) my Grandma is so over bearing and stresses me out and his grandpa creeps me out he is a registered sex offender and we hate his uncle with a burning passion. So pretty much the people that have to be there I want nothing to do with. He is upset because he thinks we should just not invite my mom and his uncle and just put up with everyone else. but that seems so wrong to me. How can I get married and not let my mom be there. She is off her rocker crazy and is extremely angry at me for calling the police on her last summer so I feel like if she came she would be set on ruining it. I have no desire to plan a wedding so I have got everything set up for the perfect elopement wedding dress photographer cake beautiful location and not a soul is invited. He is upset and I feel bad but I’m also not budging on this. Am I wrong for forcing him into an elopement when he wants a wedding surrounded by family? I want to get married before the baby and before I’m Big so I don’t really have time to do what he wants and I feel bad denying him what he wants.