He said I wasn't mature enough to handle my own place because I shop too much. I recently  purchased new clothes because I start my new job in an office setting. I don't have much clothing, so I already had dress pants, they just needed tops to match. I also purchased flats as well, I didn't see a problem with it. My current job of 8 years, I wore jeans, shirts and sneakers  because I worked  transporting students everyday. I haven't purchased anything since before my birthday of last year. We don't live together, but I'm helping his azz out because he didn't  have anything, yet I'm not mature enough to handle my own. He doesn't help pay not one of my bills and never offered to help, but I helped his azz out all the time. If you're supposed to be this successful person you claim to be, why are you not bringing in any money and I'm doing everything on my own. And did without you before you came in and will again. I'm over here getting my ish together without you. I just helped you get a loan to get out of his funk and I'm paying off credit cards because of him. I've asked for help from him, but it's no use. I learned my lesson never help out a unappreciative man again.