WE don’t know why but OUR babies are not a good sleepers, never been except for couple weeks maybe...WE tried everything because WE were helpless with overtired babies. Feeding to sleep, rocking, bouncing, sleeping in arm or on us, pacifiers and all other sleep probs are/were at our disposal. In other words, everything your favorite sleep book/blog/study/consultant/doctor/ neighbor with 5 kids/ old lady across the street says NO! DON’T DO IT! is what WE are doing to keep them asleep for couple more minutes... Are We stupid!? Or do WE hate our kids!? or more importantly do WE hate ourselves!? Do you think WE get a sadistic joy of knowing that those sleep probs are gonna cause more painful nights in long term!? Yes WE read that study too...And WE know how important it is to teach a baby to self soothe; put them down drowsy but awake, right..!? But I don’t think so, I mean OUR babies don’t think so. We are just helpless within the current situation and trying our best. One could even say, we are living in the moment to make it even sound cool...