Is there hope???

My, I guess now ex bf, and I had a talk this past weekend and he said he doesn't feel the way he did in the beginning of our relationship. I do agree that it had gotten boring. A routine I guess you could say. He said maybe we jumped into staying with each other too fast. Right away, we went to I stayed with him the whole week my kids were not with me. He said he likes to be alone. He also told me that if he had enough money, he'd move to a lake cabin and be a bachelor forever. That relationships are weird to him because he just likes to be alone so much. But then he said sometimes he sees couples and wants to try it. I got pregnant in January, but it ended in a miscarriage. He said that the only thing he could think when I got pregnant was that we were stuck in each others lives forever no matter what. He said when I got pregnant, that's when things changed for him because he's never wanted to get married or have kids. But then he has me so confused because he says he's hoping to change. We've decided to do something a little unconventional. As of right now, he is still coming to my brother's wedding in a month. We aren't going to talk at all until then. No contact for a month. So the wedding will be kinda like a first date I guess. To see if that connection is still there, and then talk at the end of the night about the past month and to see where to go from there. He told me "I hope we could try again. I am hoping that I come back and want all of those things with you. This is a serious reflection time to figure that out." He says he wants to change and wants to want to have a family someday. So he needs to really think about it to see what he wants for his future. Do you think it's a bad idea to come back and revisit things in a month?? Is it better to have the no contact until then? I’d love nothing more to get him back, but I don’t know if I should get my hopes up 😔😭