Is it okay to go through your husbands/boyfriends/girlfriends/SO's phone? And is it okay for them to do the same? I'm asking because as long as I can remember my now husband has gone through my phone while im sleeping. I never go through his!

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You shouldn't have to. The fact that he does it, and even more so that he does it when you're sleeping, shows he has huge trust issues with you

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That’s a bitch move on his part, especially while you’re sleeping. You’re with a child hope you know.

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i never go through my husbands phone. he never goes through mine. we have this thing called trust. 
i completely trust him and he trusts me.

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Me and my husband let eachother look through eachothers phones and know eachothers passwords to pretty much most things,cause to us there’s no reason for us not to know unless the other is hiding something. But usually we don’t really look through eachothers phones that much it’s kinda rare,if I’m curious what he’s doing I’ll just ask him and he tells me the truth

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It’s disrespectful

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Absolutely not okay. I have nothing to hide, but my personal conversations with my mom, sister, friends etc are none of his business! We do know each others passcodes, but it is known that we do not betray that trust.

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No I wouldn't. If you do that just shows both of you guys that you don't have trust and it's not a healthy relationship.

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I agree, trust issues on his side but you should change your pass/delete his thumbprint and see if he says something about it. I only felt the need to go through my exes phone after we were in a fight and I wanted to see what he said about me to his friends but he had trust issues with me for no reason and would try to check my phone all the time but I never let him hold it unlocked and I never revealed my pass to him. I trusted that he was never cheating so I was never seeking out trouble, I solely did it to uncover a hidden perspective about our relationship.

Is it okay to go through your husbands/boyfriends/girlfriends/SO's phone? And is it okay for them to do the same? I'm asking because as long as I can remember my now husband has gone through my phone while im sleeping. I never go through his!

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