In need of suggestions *sensitive topic*

Sian • 32 y/o second time mom hoping for an all natural birth this go round! One last time!

I am currently 28+6 and me and my SO are having a hard time having sex. It’s REALLY painful for me and he’s lost the motivation. I can’t say I blame him. But it’s frustrating. Our sex life before was so easy and now it just seems like work. Any suggestions???