me and my partner have been together for 5 years. I'm 26 and he is 24, I already have an 8 year old from a previous relationship. last may we decided to remove contraception and try for a baby, we discussed this with my parents at the time. I had a miscarriage in November which was a horrible experience, my partner was very supportive. I again found out I was pregnant 3 weeks ago, I am now 7 weeks pregnant. last week I was spotting, I was terrified of another miscarriage so went for a early scan with my partner who again at this point was very supportive, even stating after the scan I'm happy that everything is well I just don't want to get my hopes up to much incase something happens in the next 6 weeks. so Sunday night we were lying in bed talking about our future and how happy he is that he is settled with me blah blah blah....so his mother comes over the next day he tells me his mam is says he is to young to have a baby and I have to get an abortion. they left for a couple of hours before he returned alone demanding I get an abortion or we are over! we argued I told him If I get this abortion there's no going back for me and him I would never ever trust him again. so he packed his stuff. I helped him to leave by pushing him out the door, then his manipulative mother turns up at my door! demanding I get an abortion! I'm a 26 year old women how dare she tell me what to do with my own body! So anyways I leave and go to my parents. they can't believe what my partner has done they never ever expected this behaviour from him he always seems so mature. so now he is saying all I ever wanted was a baby from him and not him and how I've tricked him! we've been together 5 years! he came with me a year ago to remove my mirena coil! I don't want an abortion it would mentally kill me but how can I raise 2 children on my own are my thoughts. I have parents saying if he doesn't grow a pair then I will have to abort as they worry it'll ruin my future if I'm on my own and friends saying to think it over first. so last night I'm lying in bed with my daughter and I receive a text from him saying if you decide to keep it I will be there for the baby. But now there is tension between me and him will I ever be able to trust him again? there is tension between my parents and him as they have lost trust in him and there will be issues between me and his mam because quite frankly I hate her now and blame her for all this. so what do I do I never ever thought I'd be in this situation. not with him, his friend told me he is freaking out and to give him a few days to come round. What if he freaks out when the baby comes? I have a scan again on next Thursday.