Relationship advice needed!

AK • 19

So there was a guy who I went on 3 dates with and on the first two dates he was taking it way too slow for my liking (no hugs, no physical contact whatsoever) but then that all spun around when he gave me a $180 pandora bracelet for Christmas and that was still when I was getting to know him!

I also asked him if he wanted anything for Christmas in return, and he just said “this relationship is the best thing you could’ve gotten me.” And I was like WOAH HOLD UP we’re not official, are you putting me in a relationship without you even asking me if it can be official?

So I decided that I just wanted to be friends with him.

I felt bad afterward cause we stopped talking for a month and I still genuinely wanted to be friends with him.

Now we’re talking again and I’m actually getting the chance to get to know him and I’m having a great time (better than before)

And we’ve talked about how he was going too fast with that relationship and he said he felt bad that he put me under that stress and now I’m thinking, I actually do like him now that I’ve gotten the chance to know him and if he takes it slow this time:

Should I try being with him again?

It’s been a month of us talking since the month of us not talking. Is it too soon, should I even??

P.s. Also he’s asking me to formal.