Dating after Divorce

My husband and I are divorcing. We are separated and have been for some time. I met this really nice man (not even trying to look for anyone). He is going through the same situation as me. His divorce finalizes soon. But this man is so raw, honest, and unapologetically himself. He’s so sweet and kind. We have been talking long enough that we are ready to have sex. I am so nervous. I haven’t had sex with anyone besides my husband in years. He’s also 6 years older than me but we feel like we are the same age. We relate to each other so much but I can’t help but be nervous. How do you ladies do it? What if it’s not good? I have all of these thoughts in my head.