Have you ever unintentionally done something

And it’s not your fault but it really makes you feel like shit? I went to school with a girl that I barely talked to. Well about 3 years ago she started messaging me asking for my sons too little clothes and shoes. I did it once. And then after she kept asking I’d tell her I’d let her know when I got around to it. The only reason I never did it was because I was just too lazy to sort through the clothes. I throw them in a storage in and put the in the garage. Well I just recently found out she was asking for the clothes because her mom is on drugs and isn’t properly caring for her toddler so she’s taking on the “mommy role” and trying raise him.

I didn’t know that. Now I feel so bad that I procrastinated on helping her :(