How do you get that spark back?

Question

My husband and I will have been married for 5 years this summer. I love him more than anything. We have a beautiful 9 month old daughter. Things haven’t been great lately. I feel like we’ve fallen into being roommates more than lovers. His sex drive is low, he seems distant, and I just miss what we used to have. How do we go back and get that spark back??

Answer

Communication. You need to communicate your feelings about how you feel like the spark is dying and you would like to reignite things. If you feel like he is distant then you need to tell him. A new baby and stress of life in general may be getting to him and he might not even realize you do feel this way. Just tell him how you feel and how you would like for things to be and go from there.

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If it's doable, maybe go away for one night. Or even drop your daughter with someone trusted for a night and do something just the two of you at home. Wear something he likes and surprise him. Maybe cook something special?

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Start having a date night every week. One week you plan it, the next week he plans it. But don’t make it a chore. Keep it fun. And no talk about the baby, keep it focused just on you two.

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Have you tried a date night away from the baby?? Maybe get all dolled up and go out like you used to before you became parents.

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