my husband and I have been married for 2 years next week and are constantly asked "when yall having a baby " or "why no babies yet". people really have no idea how much this damages a person with fertility issues. I was diagnosed with PCOS just under a year ago and have been actively trying since then to conceive our little one. I am on clomid metformin and we even use preseed. These things take a toll on a woman both mentally and physically. I wish people could be more understanding when making statements like this. It can seriously hurt someone as it does me sometimes when I am at my lowest. I wish the could be a little more caring and sensitive. infertility is real and alot of us unfortunately have to live with it