help!

so i’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month and we were close friends before we started anything sexual. last night we were about to have sex but his dick literally would not go in! i’m not a virgin, but i haven’t had sex in over a year. i tried so hard and kept making it wet but nothing was working! he’s a virgin so it was hard for him understand but i’ve never really had this problem before. his dick barely went in and it hurt sooo bad. what’s going on?