Still TTC..or not

Hey all, I am currently 12 DPO according to Glow. 14 DPO according to Flo....AF due in a day or so and usually I have some pinkish reddish discharge by now to let me know that she is on the way..I haven’t been keeping track like I normally do because I am over the “stressing myself out about getting pregnant”..I have not had any period symptoms like I normally do. I have had this horrible headache for the last 3-4 days and that is new for me.. not sure what it is but I guess I’ll wait until AF is due according to glow and then I will test. Fingers crossed?!