Why won’t he just put it in the cup?

My husband and I have been trying to conceive for over a year now. We’ve gone to a fertility specialist, who has requested my husband to provide a specimen. My husband refuses to do that. He feels like it’s taking away his man hood. What should I do to convince him to do this task? I feel like I’m doing all the work but he wants a child to. #ineedgravy💦💦💦 #ittakestwo💑