Should I leave ?

Question

My husband and I have a 9 month old. 
He’s great the happiest baby, he would sleep alnight if you let him. My husband had mentioned after we had our son having another later. Well now it’s a huge no. Because of me. He doesn’t want to deal with me again. He treated me like absolute crapppp my whole pregnancy, he was disrespectful , anytime he’d do me wrong “I’m hormonal”. I was reasonably upset by his disrespectful comments. He did more and said more than I’m going to upload on here. But I moved on tried to put all of it in the past and have been working on us with him. I want two kids and if he’s not willing to have them. Should I leave. Should I have to give up another thing for him? Should I just be thankful I have one and shush to make him happy?

Answer

Are you saying he was only mean during your pregnancy but now that your not pregnant he’s not? Or is he always rude no matter what? Because if your fights were only during pregnancy and not now maybe you were hormonal? I’m just asking because he doesn’t want no more babies to not “deal” with you but your saying he treated you bad? I’m sorry but I was extremely hormonal during pregnancy and I couldn’t see it now I can. I don’t know if it worth leaving because honestly it sounds like he’s doesn’t want more only cuz of fighting with you maybe talk it out get to the bottom of it

Answer

I feel like you shouldn’t leave but to try to sit down and talk without arguing (I know that can be hard). My fiancé and I argued about how many children and when to have but we’ve learned to compromise too. We just had our first. He’s seven months old this Thursday. 
Originally the plan was to have another when our son turns three but I’ve really been wanting another like now and we decided to start trying on November 30th (the day we get married this year). 
If I somehow magically conceived right away our son will be two by the time the next one comes around. 
Also I want three and he only wants two. So, we compromised on that too. If our next one isn’t a girl then we can have three to try for a girl the third time. If the next one is a girl though then we’ll only have two. 
Now if he is mean still and you really feel like you can’t make it work then you’ve got to do what you think is best for you.

Should I leave ?

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