i havent had sex!?

Question

I just turned 18 and I've never had sex before! Ive never been confident in my body and haven't had the easiest time, dealing with anxiety and depression since a very young age! is it bad that I haven't had sex before!? I just feel like every guy expects girls to have had sex by now, and bringing it up is awkward? could really use some advice.

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NO! it's not at all bad, everyone is ready at their own time, some are ready when they're fourteen, some are ready when they're thirty, it is up to YOU if you want to have sex or not

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Hey Sweetie,

I am 20 years old and have never had sex. It’s not something that is weird or anything, it’s a decision that only you should be making. If a man is making it awkward when you tell him you haven’t had sex then he isn’t a man, he’s a boy. You shouldn’t feel pressured or anything to have sex. Everyone has different insecurities and you should feel confident in the skin you have been blessed with.

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I don’t think it’s bad at all! I’m in the same situation, and it makes ME feel more secure😌 knowing that I’m not the only one. I hope that you can feel that way too👍. I struggle 😤with the same issues as well, and it’s held me back from experiences👅💦 I could have had. Honestly, I know that I’m not ready. You should always wait until you’re 💯 sure. I don’t think it’s terrible that you haven’t had sex, because you have a whole life ahead of you🌅!! Wait ✋until YOU are comfortable with yourself and YOU know that you’re ready to have sex. Don’t let a guy’s opinion affect your decision🙅‍♂️. Definitely put yourself and your mental health first though💪🧠! I struggle with mental health issues (like you, I have been struggling for a long time), and one of the most important things I have learned and am still learning is: PUT YOURSELF FIRST 🥇💁‍♀️. Sex is not as important as self-care. Learning to love 💕 yourself more will help you in all aspects of life, including your sex life. 💋❤️
I hope this helps! 🙂

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