Will I ever get cuffed 😩

Question

I am a senior in hs right now, going to college next year. I know so many people around me getting in relationships but I never got one after all these years. I do go on dates and hook up with people occasionally so I know I’m not repulsive. Not sure if it’s because my high school is kind of small or I’m not social enough, but it feels kind of difficult when I see couples doing cute things together and genuinely caring for each other while I’m just standing here like... hi, I’m lonely.
Also, in your experiences, does it get easier to obtain a significant other in college or high school?

Answer

I did not date at all in highschool. I didn't start a relationship until I was 22 or 23. all through highschool in my small town I thought I was the weird one or that something was wrong with me. I was basing that off of what I saw in my small town area. it seemed like every one around me was dating someone at some point. the truth is they really were not. not as much as I thought. once you get into your twenties and get away from your school, you actually start to meet tons of other people that have never been in relationships etc. it's just the same people around you that seem to be dating. and it's really not such a big deal. when I met my boyfriend I rushed into things because I was excited and had all these ideas of how it was going to be. we're still together five years later and we get along well but it's really nothing like I thought it would be. sex is boring and lame. I'd rather play with my toys alone. the last time I got flowers I bought them for myself over my birthday. blah blah.  all I'm saying is what you're going through is more normal than you think. just enjoy being young and single and try not to rush into anything if Sparks aren't flying for  you yet because you'll end up disappointed. I don't regret my relationship. I care about the guy in with. but I never got a dating phase because I didn't date in school and I didn't make him do that with me.  we don't have a romantic relationship. we just have a relationship. sex for us is just a nice thing I do for him for a minute. we don't bond or feel close during sex cuz I'm too busy trying to get his attention and taking care of him to feel anything and then when it's over he doesn't wanna do anything for me or he's too busy or too tired etc.

Answer

Hey Emily, just because couples appear to be cuddly and cute on the outside doesn’t mean it’s for real or healthy. A lot of girls get involved with the wrong boys or get involved for the wrong reasons. Just work on your friendships, getting to know people and take your time. Don’t jump into a relationship with the first dude that comes along telling you how good you look.

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I met my husband to be online. I say he pestered me for a few weeks but I did play hard to get lol. There’s no issue in online dating if your not very sociable. I’m not. Just make sure they’re not a catfish lol. U will come across some weirdos but there are genuine people out there that want exactly what you do. Good luck x

Will I ever get cuffed 😩

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