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Ive been with this guy for nearly 3 months. He has stated that because of a sensory issue he doesnt want to f!inger me without gloves. He wont even give me oral. :( i havent given it to him yet, but it just bugs me. Granted he has Spina Bifida so I know the "thrusting" thing is an issue and that isnt the problem. I worry because I am an extremely sexual person and I am worried that because I am always wanting more I could push too far accidentally. Any tips? or Advice you guys could give me?