Hey love bugs . Self love and care is important . I know as women we tend get wrapped up caring for everyone but ourselves. Taking care of yourself and loving yourself is extremely important. Do what sets your soul on fire . You want to go sky diving, open your own business, box ,dance ,learn something new,join a gym,take vacation,hike etc do it . Yes others will judge you they will talk about you they'll say you should wait to kids are grown or it isn't the right time . They will say you're selfish or setting a bad example. So what, being selfish sometimes isn't a bad thing you're not setting a bad example by showing your family/love ones that they should love themselves and do what best for them too. Guess what?? The same people who talk about you are upset they didn't have courage to be themselves . Live for you fight for you love yourself. Sorry for the rant have great day my loves.