Heartbroken - :-( trying after a D&C?

Question

I had the worst news yesterday 
I have seen the baby and heartbeat on 4 occasions and it was growing fine - 
I went for an 11 week reassurance scan yesterday (would of been 11.4) and I was told the baby’s heart has stopped 
I’m so heartbroken 
I’m scheduled for a D&C; tomorrow and I was wondering if there are any success stories about getting pregnant after this surgery? 
We would like to get pregnant straight away and I read many stories of women getting pregnant after jus 3 weeks before a proper period as your super fertile - is there any added complications if this happens?
Trying to stay hopeful - 2 months seems such a long time to wait and try again :(

Answer

You can try away after a d&c; and its 50/50 if it is a viable pregnancy or not. I know people that have carried fill term and then ones who miscarried early one.
I trued right away after my d&c; it took three months after it for my periods to arrive and a year since the d&c; where i finally got my bfp a week n half ago 
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My advice is after the d&c; take time to heal. Spent lots of time with partner and friends once able go have fun. It might seem like you wont be able to do this, but you will. And once your ready try again

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a loss at 9 weeks post heartbeat. My dr advised me to just have 1 full period post d&c bleeding before trying again. I got my first period 7 weeks post d&c. 
I got pregnant again about 3 months d&c and had a healthy daughter. However, I made a mistake in that instead of grieving my loss, I jumped straight into focusing on getting pregnant again like a mission. Once I got pregnant, the grief remained and got worse. I got very anxious about the new pregnancy, had nightmares of the tech disclosing the loss, even had dreams of bleeding out when I never even had bleeding. I finally realized that I had to grieve my loss in order to move on, and the only way to do that was to acknowledge that the new pregnancy did not replace the baby I lost, and 100 babies won't replace that one. People will say "oh don't worry you'll have a baby soon", but I wanted THAT baby. Just like if someone's friend died, you wouldn't be like oh don't worry you'll make new friends. It doesn't work that way with pregnancy loss either.
So, there is definitely hope for a healthy pregnancy  (besides my rainbow baby daughter I'm 37 weeks  pregnant yet again) but if you need to grieve, do it, even if no one understands (my own husband didn't even fully understand)
Hang in there !

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Your body needs time to heal after a D&C.; I’ve had one and an mva. I’ve had one successful pregnancy but I waited by choice so I’m not sure about increased fertility but I’ve heard up to six months after. I’m sorry you’re going through this 😔 my thoughts are with you x ❤️

Heartbroken - :-( trying after a D&C?

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