am i wrong?

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i want more children. my husband does not. wants to make #2 our last. baby is due in july. if were not having more children i have a name i love but my husband dislikes. originally i took his opinion into account but if this is my last baby im thinking of naming the baby what i want and disregarding his opinion completely.... i feel he is selfish in making such a big decision regardless of my wishes. so am i wrong to make this one on my own??

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You are both wrong and need to find common ground. You're married, there has to be compromise and if there is none, you guys have a big problem.

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I think you're being pretty selfish, unless he changed his mind about how many kids after you discussed it before marriage. Its his life, and his kid too.  You need to respect it if he doesn't want more kids, and respect his input in naming your future child.  How would you feel if the situation was reversed.

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No, your husband needs to like the name of his child, whether you have more or not. 
It sounds like the 2 of you are on very different pages on major life decisions, and that you're holding resentment....understandably, I'd be upset if my husband told me no more after 2, but you getting to choose a name he doesn't like isn't successful conflict resolution skills. You may want to consider couples counseling before these things escalate. 
My friend's husband decided no more kids after 2, and anyway long story short he ended up confiding in me that it's because the 2 of them were always arguing and he felt that more kids would put more stress on the marriage and not be fair to their current kids. Then I understood where he was coming from. I'm not sure if that's the case with you guys, but if so, couples counseling may also eventually help him feel open to having more kids.

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My two cents: your husband can change his name about another child but it’s a lot harder to change a child’s name and it could cause a lot of resentment from your husband to cut him out of naming your child.

am i wrong?

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