Am I being mean, I just don’t want any text!

I am 39+2. Extreme pain, just no progress. I keep telling everyone I will send out an announcement when I have the baby, yet they are still blowing up my phone “baby here yet!?” So I’m at the point where I won’t be answering text, is that mean?! 😭😭😭 im just so uncomfortable plus my husband and I will be the only ones there on first day so I don’t intend on keeping anyone 100% posted, but my mom 🌚 just need to be left alone for a second. My body hurttttt!