Is it fair?

please read and truly think on this. Mom's all over can now choose if they rather bf or use formula. Both are great choices. We say it's your body, you choose what's best. But with the baby, it's not just yours. The baby is their own self, and the dad has a right to choose decisions just as well as you (in a good situation). Now, does the dad have any right to strongly influence the decision on bf? Seeing that they cannot do it themselves, but want very strongly for the baby to have it for the benefits. This is my official question: is it right of the mother to make feeding decisions for dad and baby, based solely on personal feelings, not needs, on whether or not to bf? Meaning she chooses not based medical reasons, even against the father's and/or baby wishes to breastfeed (baby might wish to have been bf when older).