33 weeks pregnant and may be exposed to herpes

So I met this amazing guy and I really like him. he had herpes. it's well controlled and he takes meds for it daily. he has a small outbreak every so often and hasn't had one since we've been together. We've had sex a couple times and haven't used anything. I know it sounds super stupid but I didn't think it was that big of a deal since he didn't have an out break. well I did some research and saw how bad it can be for babies and how I can get it even without an outbreak and I'm freaking out. help. I don't need your negative comments I just need advice