5th and Final Update: So everything went pretty good! I went and picked out my dress and lingerie and then came home and got ready. He walked outside and knocked on the door to pick me up and it was.adorable. He was in his white shirt and slacks and looked hella handsome! We went to roadhouse where I proceeded to get morning sickness because there were eggs in my salad I didnt see lol. He didnt mind though. We talked about anything and everything and laughed and joked like best friends. We started out roleplaying but had more fun talking like we usually do. I discovered that he actually wants to do demolition instead of machine and tool. He discovered some new things about me too! I teased him all night about his special surprise and he was dying to know! He was so romantic. We had to get gas and go pick up cat food so we did and while we were there he picked out flowers and candles for me! We came home and while he fed the cat I got the bedroom ready with our new candles. I laid down all sexy on the bed in my new lingerie and he waited outside the closed door. He was so excited and I made him wait a little longer for effect. He finally couldn't take it anymore so I let him in and he was already hard and all he could do was squeak out an appreciative mmmm. He then took multiple pictures for later lol. We got busy and halfway through he we realized that we really didnt want sex so he got under the blankets and snuggled me tight and is now happily asleep in my arms and properly romanced. Im so happy about how the night turned out. All he wanted most was a snuggle and good conversation from his one true love. He already has two new dates planned that I cant wait for! He is the most romantic and sweetest man on earth again and I'm soooooo happy that he is mine!

UPDATE 4: Do you ladies think he'll like this? Also i went with the last black dress.

UPDATE 3: Help me pick a dress!Which one?

UPDATE 2: So we switched to texting and were flirting hard and as we were going to bed he hopped in the shower. I'm all horny thinking about all of the awesome sex we'll be having tomorrow and he comes out of the shower and hops into bed and starts kissing on me. Then the best sex in our lives ensues! Im on top for like an hour pumping away and cumming nonstop then we switch up with foreplay and oral then go back to screwing then hes on top....and just wow! He really rocked my world. One time I came so hard that when he pulled out to adjust I was still cumming! I squirted twice! Then he had the best orgasm ever and we were panting so hard....it was amazing. We chatted a bit after and he reached for me and cuddled me and then he started absentmindedly stroking my leg and running his fingers across my body and kissing my cheeks and neck lightly and he hasnt done any of that in at least a year. After sex was the best part because we were so intimate and the bond was already growing again. Now hes snoring away beside me as I wore him out. Ladies, definitely date your husbands/wives! It is definitely worth it. As for the negative nancies, I didnt realize that I had to be ultraspecific. We all know how tinder works. He swiped right on my and I got the notification that he liked me, I swiped right on him and then he messaged me. It was a romantic amazing surprise thing and I dont understand why you're focusing so hard on trying to catch me in some lie. Idk if you're bitter or what but just dont comment if you're going to be negative. We are trying to mend our relationship and I dont need that. To those of you who are so supportive, I will update tomorrow with new dress options! Stay tuned!

UPDATE: He came home and we talked about what we were looking for and right now we want to keep it casual and just have fun. We are basically going to be FWB. I'm fine with this as we need to get our sexual chemistry back. Hopefully this will be good!

ORIGINAL POST:Last night I sat him down to discuss our sexless marriage as something had to change. I asked him what I'd been dreading to ask which was, "Are you still in love with me? Do you even like me? Are you attracted to me at all?" He said, "You're a good person and I love you but, no matter how hard I try or how much I want to I cant seem to find an attraction for you anymore." I was hurt but I only want his happiness so I told him, "I want you to start dating other people then. You need to find something with someone who will bring you happiness. I'm not going anywhere right now because I love you too much but do what you have to do whether that be a random hookup every night or a new relationship altogether." I had given up hope and honestly thought this was for the best. I'd spent so long fighting for our marriage by myself that I just felt relieved to finally hear the truth and to feel like I'm finally able to let go of what I was fighting so hard to hold on to. My husband signed up for tinder and said I need to sign up as well. I did it but didnt think anything of it and I was just going to leave it on my phone. I wasn't really interested in anything and was kind of hurt that he jumped on tinder so fast. I thought he was ready to be rid of me and just stuck around out of guilt. All of a sudden as I was moping in bed I got a notification! I couldn't imagine who would be interested in someone as dumpy as me but I looked out of curiosity and the following conversation ensued today:

This isn't just some random guy! It's my husband! At this point our marriage is "over". We are now starting completely from scratch. It wont be hard we know virtually nothing about each other anymore and I havent felt this giddy in a long time. I found myself blushing and laughing and flirting. I was even turned on! IDK why but I'm so nervous for our date tomorrow! It's like when we first met except instead of being at college we're on a dating sight. Ladies the man I met and fell in love with is coming back to me. Needless to say I'm going on a diet and waxing everything. (basic dating stuff) I need to look my best now that I'm a "single" girl again. I need to look good for my new love interest. Hehe. I'm blushing now as I'm typing this. I hope this is our new beginning. I hope our marriage can be repaired. This is the first romantic thing hes done in ages. I'm so infatuated! Any first date tips ladies? Also it's been a while for me how do I not suck at sex? I want to rock his world.