not sure what to do

so my husband and i go to a old fashion Methodist church and we are a part of the worship team, my hisband grew up in this church but left we decited to go back after we started talking about ttc. we used to go to a verry large church and wanted a smaller family style church for our kids. in may of 2016 we got pregnant with our first and we lost him at 16 weeks (this is important to know ) so as we started going to this church that os filled with people my husband grew up around we fit right in right away and people were happy he was back and brought another member with him (me) and when we got pregnant with our rainbow baby we announced it to the church and have been keeping them updated through everything. they all had lnow what had happed before so we felt keeping them updated was important. well we just found out that a girl on our worship team is upset with us for talking about our pregnancy so much. her and her husband have been trying for 5 years and have had multiple misscarriage. i get its upsetting iv been in her shoes but i dont even talk to her directly about it unless she askes questions becaus i know its hard for them. but now she is talking with multiple people in the church about it thinking we are doimg it on purpose to hurt her but thats not even close to the truth we are just happy that we have come this far (31 weeks). anyway not sure what to do. i cant just not talk about it but i also dont want to hurt her becaus i get where shes comeing from after loss you hate pregnant women but you have to just get over it too. and again i dont talk to her about it unless she askes i talk to members of the congregation and shes over hears i (small church) please no mean comments