Toys??

Okay, I don't really know where to put this category wise. Basically my husband is having a difficult time exciting me, no matter what he tries (except eating but even that doesn't always do the trick), so he wants me to get some toys. Mainly a vibrator probably for stimulation, Idk. So what are some toys you ladies like?? Brands would be helpful too. We never bought toys, yesterday we bought (for the first time) numbing throat spray, which I like using, and what's called "Good Head Helper", which basically is a massager for him. He seems to enjoy those. Also he's been wanting to do anal, which I feel weird about and have told him I don't want to, but I kinda wanna surprise him one day and just do it. So any advice and tips for that would be helpful too. Thank You in advance

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I have never EVER gone shopping for this stuff until yesterday. So everything is new to me, including what things look like, i.e. various vibrators.