Is this molestation/sexual abuse?

I was visiting my aunt at around 9-10 years old. I was showering when she came in uninvited and requested to help me shower. I thought it was odd, and unusual for her to ask so. My parents hadn't helped me shower since I was around 4. But I just shrugged, uncomfortable and silent. She rapidly and violently washed my body, and then she got to my vagina. She spend more time on it than any other part of my body, I could feel the tips of her nails inside me. With that she left without saying a word.

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(A couple other odd incidents with her)

She was visiting my house once. I had fallen asleep with the door unlocked and woke up to her laying behind me with her hand up my shirt, stroking at my body.

She wanted my mother to sell me to her.

She bought me so, SO many presents.

She lost interest in me as I got older, she loves humilating me now.