I just got together with this wonderful man, Jay. we've been talking for a while and he finally told me he loved me and the feeling was mutual. He lives in Virginia and i had to move to Oklahoma to finish school.🙁 Im here for the next year. Hes making trips to fly and see me. ive always been a commitment phobe...i have had one long distance relationship before and we dated for 2 years. But Levi cheated on me with his sister. And yes you read that correctly. Sister. im super afraid that might happen again. ive always been the kinda of person who has always been too trusting towards people. i truly love him with all my heart and i know he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me. Im just scared. Any advice? and another thing...how do we get intimate? in my last long distance we only traded pictures. However he visited me every month twice....and heh heh...ya know... but its so much different with him. I dont know what to do...