Ok, so this is a more open topic just to see what different people think...

We’ve been TTC for 6 cycles now and AF arrived yesterday. Cycles are a bit irregular but not painful, excessively long or heavy. In the UK, it is suggested to seek advice from you GP about fertility after 12 month if you are under 35, which I am, so in theory that’s probably another 5-6 months to go before I can check there’s nothing abnormal go on.

So my question is, how do you just relax and reduce the stresses of TTC when it’s something you really want to happen?

Do you just abandon charting and not think about anything other than noting the date of af on the calendar?

It seems like such an easy thing to say, but you want to keep monitoring things so you have information to tell the doctor, you want to keep taking your prenatal vitamins in case you fall pregnant, and essentially, with busy hectic work schedules and a toddler, you kinda want to at least be in the same bed as your other half at the same time as each other at a vaguely appropriate time of month!!!

Love to hear what people think!