Get tf out then???

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OKKK SO IM SOOOO SICK AND TIRED OF LIVING WITH MY FUCKING BROTHER IN LAW. HES THE BIGGEST LOSER EVER. HE JUST SITS HERE ALLLLL DAY SLEEPING DOING NOTHING BUT RUNNING UP THE ELECTRIC AND WATER. HE HAS NO FUCKING JOB AND HIS PARENTS PAY HIS FUCKING HALF OF THE RENT. OH YEAH AND HES ALMOST 26 YEARS OLD LIVING WITH HIS BABY BROTHER AND I. SO THE PROBLEM I HAVE IS WITH THE AC. ILL PUT THE AC ON 72 AND HELL GO IN AND CHANGE IT TO LIKE 78 BECAUSE HES COOOOLD🙄🙄🙄 SO OF COURSE I HAVE TO WAKE UP EVERY GODDAMN DAY SWEATING BECAUSE THERES HOT AIR BLOWING FROM THE VENTS. I FINALLY SAID SOMETHING TO HIM.

LIKE IF YOU DONT LIKE IT THEN GET YOUR OWN FUCKING PLACE. Like wtf. AND IT MAKES ME SO MAD BECAUSE MY BOYFRIEND NEEEVERRR HAS MY BACK WITH ANYTHING. HE JUST SITS THERE AND SAYS NOTHING EVERYTIME. OR HE AGREES WITH HIS BROTHER BECAUSE ITS HIS BROTHER. AT THIS POINT IM OVER IT AND I JUST WANT TO GO LIVE BY MYSELF😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤 ik its stupid to be mad over but its just annoying that he has to live with us. Its been like this for practically a year now. Me and my boyfriend are having problems because of him. Like how he cant perform sexually most of the fricken time because hes scared his brother will hear us like WTF 😤😤

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Kick him out. Give him 30 days to GTFO. Family or not, he’s taking advantage of you.

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Move out girl, you don't deserve the stress. You can't change your brother in law but your boyfriend not sticking up for you is a red flag. If you BF wants to visit you had preform sexually, great. But he can live with his brother who he takes sides with. They can stay in the hot house together. If your BF knows what he has, he will catch on.

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It’s your place wtf?!? Lol. What a weirdo. I’d make him leave. He can go live with his enabling parents

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I would buy a thermostat lock, they have lock boxes you can out over the thermostat so people can’t change it without a key 🤣

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Make it nice. Get him a cake that says “GTFO”. Use the paperwork as decoration. And if he’s not out in 30 days, throw him a party on the front lawn...using all his stuff.

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My sister keeps her place at 80 degrees and I have mine at 70 degrees. It is SO HOT over there when I stay over at her place and I don’t like it, but I would never tell her to turn it down or change the temperature myself. It’s her house. The same applies in your situation.

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i’d be like

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Kick him out. That would be the day someone mooches off me and tells me what to do in my own home

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I would just tell his brother that it's your house, your rules. If he doesn't like it he can go find somewhere else to live and I knkw this might be hard but I would tell your bf that if he doesnt want to kick his brother out that's fine but to not say anything to you when you kick his brother out. Just like he doesn't stand up for you, to not stand up for his brother and if he doesn't like it... off you go to find your own place. I'm sorry but your bf needs to man up a little and tell his brother that it's your home, your rules. He isnt a child anymore and it's not your responsibility to have him living there

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It’s not stupid to be mad over this!!! I can’t stand being in the same room with my BIL let alone live with him, AND you guys are hosting his lazy ass, and he has the nerve to touch the thermostat AND argue with you???? Sounds like an absolute man child. 😠

Get tf out then???

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