baby shower

Kristal

so as I've been planning by baby shower BBQ trying to include everyone. I keep having the go around with e everyone because I say I don't think children should be In attendance. I'm not trying to be rude but it's suppose to be a day for the baby and I and I don't want the stress of babysitting people's kids while trying to host. so kinda just wondering everyone's opinion on if a baby shower is for kids or not?