I can’t believe this is happening 😞

My husband got into my face at my parents house. My step dad didn’t take it well and they got in each other’s face. My husband left took his kids. (They we’re at my moms) His brother picked up all if there stuff from our home. We have a 5months old. Then I find out he’s back with his kids mom. Left me with all the bills. I have no job I been being a SAHM since I was 6months pregnant. Which was his idea. I ask him for help now and he says “no that me and my family got exposed” my parents have always helped him and I. This is just crazy to me. I’m not sure what to do. Then he says he won’t file for divorce even though he was being unfaithful. Says he be alone until Jesus comes or he dies. He’s telling everyone I was mean to his kids which is total bullshit. His kids love me and this whole time I been dealing with there mom always in our relationship saying her and him still mess around. Then as soon as we split thats who he goes straight too. He’s sees nothing wrong. He says I can’t control him anymore because he’s getting his own stuff.. I never tried to control him he just never had good enough credit to put anything in his name. It’s crazy I never seen this coming. I don’t know

If he changed or if this is who he’s always been. Any advice?? I’m sure we won’t be back together but this stuff hurts.

**** I am going to file for divorce I just know he will try and get half custody of our baby and honestly he’s not fit for that. When I had his kids he tried so hard for me to be their mom when they had a mom and she was involved. Also he has anger issues. The messed up part is when we lived together he never paid any attention to our baby. There were days when I had to ask him if he was going to see her. When I was pregnant he told my family I wanted a baby not him so he wasn’t going to help me with her when she came. The day of my cesarean was awful. He wasn’t even talking to me in the morning, not until my family showed up. Recovery was even worse he didn’t help me with anything and said I was being lazy. Said I was playing my “roll”.. The mother of his boys even tried to have me have her kids full time the week before my scheduled csection... him too he was mad that I didn’t agree. Honestly during recovery I had to basically act like like I was fine. I made it mind over matter.