Why are guys so slow on making a move these days??

I’m recently single, after a 5 years amazing relationship and been getting laid here and there but the last guy TOOK SO LONG to make a move again after the first time we had sex that i “broke it off” even before we became a “thing”. Too bad cause he was hot as hell and the sex was good, the ONE time we did it. Then my Roomate is having the same problems with other guys she’s seeing! Anyone out there crazy for sex like me but isn’t getting it from the guys that you’re going out with enough? What’s going on?

What about the “not getting it up” deal too????? That’s the whole reason why i broke up my amazing relationship. So sad. He just couldn’t get it up and just wasn’t interested in sex anymore. I had to move on and be happy because it was killing me that my sex life was dead and I’m only 31. He’s 44. So sad but.... i had to move on.

Anyone having these problems lately? Or with a new guy?