Hi ladies! I’ve got a little big problem. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and we have started having sex but not regularly. I’ve never had sex before and haven’t even inserted any toys or used tampons. My boyfriend is 8.1 inches long and 6 inches in circumference. I’ve been able to take all of him once or twice. But we keep running into this issue.... I uncontrollably and unconsciously use my legs to push him away. He keeps telling me to relax but it’s so hard not too. I trust him to go slow and not hurt me but i just can’t seem to stop. It does hurt when he’s trying to get in and I bleed afterwards about half the time. It’s probably only felt really good a handful of times we’ve done it. He’s been having a hard time staying hard because he feels like I don’t want to have sex. It’s been causing some stress in our relationship. I’m not sure what to do. Maybe more foreplay until I’m really calm and ready? We just got a glass wand that’s about the same in length and half in circumference so he can warm me up but I even have a hard time letting him use that on me. I tell him that if he goes slow we can make progress but he goes soft and then gets frustrated. Please help 😔