NOTICE: THIS IS A LONG STORY AND A LOT OF EXPLAINING. SO, GRAB YOUR POPCORN.

Okay, I’ve been reading a lot of stories on this page and I just wanted to add mine. Let’s start off with I can’t stand my husbands side of the family. They are all either psycho or rude. It all started with his sister. She and my MIL have always been extremely passive aggressive towards me for some reason. At Christmas dinner one year my SIL and husband got into an argument and she started talking so much smack about our marriage and myself. But, I didn’t say a word and just ignored her.

Then on Easter we went to my husbands grandmas house. (Now alittle back story I have GERD and Acid reflux, I have had it since I can remember.) Everyone was leaving and I was feeling extremely sick and I was so, so hot. So, my husband gave me the keys to the car and I needed to sit in the AC. His gma comes and tells me bye and his sister was super rude/passive aggressive and said, “well bye!” Pretty much yelling at me. She was obviously offended by me cooling off and not getting out of the car to tell people bye. (Even though I said bye to everyone and they all understood I was sick.) So, we drive home and our niece calls me and tell me she was saying how awful I was and that I was rude. INFRONT OF HER 2 SMALL GIRLS. Those girls look up to me to.

Fast forward, I still continue to go to their house with my husband every once in a while, but his mom double, triple, and sometimes quadruple texts him if he doesn’t reply fast enough. She calls him BALLING because she feels like she doesn’t get enough attention from him.

Then we have to move 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

OF COURSE, they all come to. They try to touch all our stuff and go through it and we just want them to leave Tbh. Well when they FINALLY LEAVE she starts balling her eyes out. Then proceeds to text him a million times a day EVERY SINGLE DAY. But, even though they do all this they tell him how awful he is all of the time. His dad says, “I could never learn anything from you.” “I waisted my money paying for you to get a degree.” (My husband is very intelligent and graduated college with flying colors.)

Now you must be thinking, what else could go wrong? Oh no, there’s more.

My husband and I eventually moved back and my husband needed spine surgery. I was there the whole time and never left his side. I tried to avoid them all as much as possible, but they kept pulling my earbuds out and moving my stuff to sit close to me. But, what pissed me off the most is when my husband was in surgery his mom took the buzzer for when he would be done, when his room would be ready etc.

It. Pissed. Me. Off.

THEY DIDNT EVEN STAY IN THE WAITING ROOM AND WAIT FOR HIM. THEY WENT TO THE FOOD COURT AND LEFT AFTER THAT. I am his WIFE and that is NOT okay.

I had no clue what was going on and I had to beg for a buzzer, even though it was only 1 buzzer per patient.

And the grand finally, his dad. So my husband was recovering well and I continued to stay by his side and help him as much as I could. Note: THEY NEVER VISITED HIM ONCE WHILE HE WAS RECOVERING. While my husband was recovering he was looking for jobs. And we wanted to move far away so we were looking at jobs in other states. Well, my husband lands 2 interviews in the same state. He was talking about it to his dad on the phone, (he was on speaker) and his dad HAD THE NERVE TO SAY, “Well, maybe you should just go by yourself and stay, ya know?”

HE IMPLIED THAT MY HUSBAND SHOULD LEAVE ME. I WAS LIVID.

Now, I don’t talk to any of my in laws. I hate them all. They have caused a lot of problems with my marriage.

So, I pretend they are dead. 🤭🤗