Am i in the wrong?

Kind of a long story, I’ll try to shorten it and make as much sense as i can.

So this week has been stressful at work for my husband, he’s having to work late and go in early to try and make hours, he’s a flat rate tech, so last night i told him not to worry about rushing home or helping with anything, I’ll get it done he’s had a hard day. So i go home and get dinner going, start some laundry, hang out with our son, the usual. He comes home and seems kinda like he’s in a shit mood, he’s kind of arguing everything i say so i brush it off, eventually ask him if he’s ok, he says “yeah but i wish you’d stop jumping down my throat about everything” i ignored it cause i figured it was just stress and him being tired. I mention that we need diapers and that i should run to the store and he insists he’ll go in the morning, even tho going to the store in the morning sucks, so i say ok whatever you wanna do. We eat dinner and he goes upstairs to shower, i start cleaning dinner up and doing the dishes, wipe the counters down, clean up the living room, clean kitty boxes, fold laundry. He’s finished with his shower about half way through me doing all of this ( oh and i put our son to sleep before i started all of this ) and he just stays upstairs playing on his phone. So i eventually go upstairs to fold laundry and put it away and as soon as i go up there to finish up for the night and finally hang out with him he says “I’m going to get diapers”. It upset me because an hour before this i said I’d do it and wanted to do it then to get it out of the way, but i just sighed and said “ok”. He asked what’s wrong and by this time I’m just tired from the day and wanted to take a bath but couldn’t cause of the dishwasher, i told him “i just hate that there’s always something to clean every single night and i wish you would have just let me get diapers earlier, now that we actually have time to hang out you’re leaving and idk it sucks” and he started yelling at me saying “our house isn’t filthy and you act like it is, maybe one day you’ll realize how your shitty attitude affects our marriage, you’re being a bitch fuck you” i was honestly taken back lol. Like maybe i had some attitude when i sighed and complained about cleaning but it wasn’t that terrible? So i start telling him how i feel and he walks away so i keep talking at him saying “oh good you’re walking away when I’m telling you my feelings, classic kevin, super mature and super cool and what a great way to treat your wife who’s just done everything for you so you can have an easy night.”

He left and got diapers, i fell asleep before he came back. We haven’t spoken yet this morning and i honestly don’t want to talk to him. He always walks away from me whenever i tell him my feelings and I’m just fucking over it. He won’t talk to me until i apologize for the way i acted i just know it, but i honestly don’t see what i did that was wrong??