Cray cycles

so I've struggled for since I was a teen (now 34) with my cycles always being off. I hate birth control and don't want to be on it. I just started having a cycle again mid of last month. had another on time and bam! not even 4-5 days after the second one I started stopping again. it was new blood at first (tmi Sorry) and then after 2-3 days it went to old. I'm so

and I don't have insurance to go to the dr right now. What has everyone done to combat this side from birth control?