Conflicted, Drained and unsure 😢

For the last six months I have been so unhappy in my relationship. My bf and I met ten years ago but it just started as a hook up that neither one of us could leave. And year and half ago we both decided to start getting serious and it was great in the beginning and I was over the mood happy..till six months ago. We just fight all the time about only spending weekends together and him not making any effort at all. When we are together it’s perfect and he tells me he wants to be with and that he’s loved me for ten years (i don’t ask for him to tell me) but he makes no effort to show these things and sometimes doesn’t even feel like we’re in a relationship or even friends when we’re are apart. The thing is, I love him so much more than I have loved anything and I really thought he was the one and we’d have a future together. But now, all I do is cry and feel hurt and unhappy and he has no respect for how I feel.

So my question is l, how do you walk away from someone who you love and someone who makes you feel so happy but so unhappy at the same time? Really hurting and could use all of your advice. Thank you ❤️