What should I do?

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My boyfriend wants me to send him nudes. Im complete fine with that but he wants me to send him nudes of me COMPLETELY naked. Usually, when I send him nudes I just send him pictures of me in my underwear. I don’t really feel comfortable sending pictures of me naked like that because I’m very insecure and hate the way I look naked. I told him this and he said it was fine but he sounded mad. He said that because I’m the only person he’s ever sent a dick pic to he feels exposed since I’ve seen all of him but he hasn’t seen all of me. I don’t know what to do. I want to send him the pictures but I just can’t. I’m feel too insecure.

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If you’re not comfortable don’t do it! You are worth more than pleasing a boyfriend. You have the right to say no and I’m happy you have. 
Boys show other boys the nudes they get sometimes. Better safe than sorry.

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send him this

plenty of "noods"

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I personally wouldn’t do it. Never have not even to my Husband. He has the real thing at home he can look at, anytime. My advice? if anything were to go wrong he’s always going to have that picture to do with what he wishes, not saying he would but you really never know. Be sensible about it

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If you aren’t comfortable, don’t do it. He sent you pictures because he wanted to. I’m sure you didn’t pressured him into it. A relationship should be about trust and respect. Even if he really wanted the pictures, a good boyfriend would just drop it and respect your decision. Personally, don’t send fully naked pictures. I had a guy once we broke up threaten to post pictures I’d sent (in underwear) all over Facebook as revenge. He never did, but you just never know who will see or what someone can do with your picture. I’d rather not have my lady bits out there for everyone. I didn’t send nudes to anyone until I was married. 🤷🏻‍♀️ i mean, go for it if you want. But it’s risky.

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If he got angry or upset about it, that seems like a reason to not send it to me. Things like that should be shared because you want to and you're comfortable. If you aren't and he's trying to pressure you, don't send them.

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Absolutely, if you're not comfortable then don't do it, but if it helps you can tell him what I've told guys in the past who have asked for nudes before I was ready: "I want the first time you see all of me to be in person" and to make him feel more special you can add "in person, when you undress me before we make love"

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