How to get started with anal?

Question

My BF and I are Really kinky and open with each other. we tried everything on the planet but anal. i haven’t done it with another person only Solo. Im nervous About it because Im not sure how to prepare for it (Clean myself out etc) And Also Dont want any embarrassment 😂😂 Any starter tips?

Answer

You don't HAVE to clean yourself out, it really depends on you and your partner's preference. As for getting started, work your way up. Start with a pinky finger a couple times, work up to a thumb, 2 fingers, a small toy, and then eventually sex. And LUBE LUBE LUBE.  You can never have enough lube. Don't use just a basic lube, you want something thick and jelly like, preferably one that says it's for anal sex. Astroglide is a good lube for anal play. Also, as hard as it sounds, try to relax your muscles. You're going to instinctively clench up and "pucker" up, and  it's going to take a bit 
of coaxing yourself mentally to relax and ease up. Also, anal sex should NOT hurt. If you're feeling any pain - STOP. Lastly, know that anal sex isn't for everyone. My fiancee and I only indulge in anal play every once in a while - I personally just don't find it pleasurable and I can't get over the "I'm pooping" feeling - and when you're naked on your bed with your lover next to you, having your brain tell you you're pooping kind of throws all the sexiness out the window lmao. All in all, just be safe, and be kind to your body. Good luck!

Answer

Take a nice 💩 before you do it. I recently started using lube and WOW does it make it so much better. Just relax to let him get it in at first. Don’t think about it, just clear your mind. Once you get going you’ll feel like you’re melting into the bed🤤

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LUBE, lots of lube (water based, oil based can break down condoms). Take it slow and start with a finger. Stimulate other parts of your body like your clit or boobs to help make it more comfortable.

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