How can i make sex more enjoyable for me?

Question

Don’t get me wrong i love having sex with my boyfriend and i do get super horny and wet but when we are actually having sex i don’t get that much pleasure. I was wondering if there is anything we could do so that i enjoy it more? He’s just always asking me if i came and i don’t know what to tell him because i don’t want to say no and hurt his feelings. I love him but i just want to know how i can get more from sex.

Answer

Research and experiments are the only approach I can recommend.
By research I mean to widen your horizons. Read erotica (or don't, it's mostly stupid and unbelievable), research some kinks and try to imagine if that's something you would be into, look up sex toys - maybe cock rings?
And by experiment I mean apply what you've learned until you find what works. Try new positions, try new kinks and toys...
Orgasm is something a woman has to learn. It's not as easy as thrusting forward.
The most important part is trusting your partner not to judge you for wanting to try something. Maybe as a foreplay make him create a list of five things he wants to do in bed and you do/try the same and compare.
What worked for me was a very knowledgeable guy, who almost made me orgasm the first time we ended in bed and we didn't even have intercourse.
Other thing that worked was a guy who really liked going down on me and he also had a great penis (had to say it, it's the truth. He fit so well!).
The positions that worked best for me:
- missionary with my legs lifted so he could fill me completely,
- doggy with me rubbing my clit - this also turned him on quite a bit! But it was hard sometimes to finish like this, because when i was close I tended to push him out
- spooning - great position for getting worked up! Just start with him thrusting between your legs, rubbing against your pussy and you will beg him to stick it in!
(eh, probably too explicit, sorry)

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Really hoping someone comments advice cause I can relate and need help too 😂😂

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I have a low ass sex drive so I’m following this lol! But try toys?

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Saaaame! But I have been trying different positions and they have sorta been working? You just have to keep working at it

How can i make sex more enjoyable for me?

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