I've been with my SO for 3 1/2 years, but we've gone through some major speed bumps.. it still causes me to have issues to this day.. I can't seem to get past what he has done. In the beginning the first time he told me he loved me he slept with another women and he knew it was wrong as he told her not to give him hickes or scratch his back. He has countless times looked up nude womens pictures (we talked about it and he stopped kinda) he liked and commented on women's half naked pictures and genuine pictures on fb. Hes watched countless videos of naked women doing all sorts of things.. now I understand to some a few of these things wouldn't bother you.. but for me it did and still does. We've talked about it a lot and I still can't get past any of it. The lying the hiding and the fact that he needed to seek pleasure from other women. I love this man so much but everything that he's done makes me feel like shit honestly. How can I get past this? I've tried over and over again but I just can't. please no rude comments, I am genuinely just trying to seek advice or someone who has been relatively in my same situation..