Lazy mate

Asking if he’s in the mood is a good way to start. My fiancé and I had picked out an emoji that we use as a signal to let the other know when we’re feeling a little more excited. But it’s not a signal to “come over right now and let’s do it” but it’s a way that we become aware of each other’s needs as it comes and goes. And if we happen to be able to care for each other it’s a bonus. Buttering him up with some romance never hurts to try either. But above all it’s not just your responsibility to keep the spark of your sex life going but his as well.

My husband and I have phrases that we say that tell the other person (especially around little ears) that it will be going down. I have also purchased wigs and pretended to be another woman. try to find what excites him or what he might like that is new.