so let me start off by just saying that I was shocked and dumbfounded and no I didn't agree to it. so me and my ex were married for 13 years I got married really young we just divorced in 2015. now we're both with other people and we both have kids from the other people we are with. and my ex and I together have two kids so I have to see him weekly for him to pick up our kids and to pay me the child support he owes. anyway. so two years goes by after we are divorced and he hadn't paid anything for his child support so I told him that you need to start paying your child support and you need to start picking up your children. now this mother f r asks me if he could ask me a question. so I'm like sure what's the question and he's like you can't tell anyone that I asked you.

so I'm like what do you mean I can't tell anyone. what is so bad that you can't just ask me and that I can't tell anyone. and I'm like what is it you need to borrow money. his answer was no but it could get us both into trouble and I'm like well then I don't know if I want you to ask me but of course curiosity gets the best of me and I'm like what is it

mind you he's now married to this chick that he was meeting up with when I was at work. he even took our daughter to meet her and then told her not to tell me. mind you that's partially the reason we got divorced the other part was he told me that he hadn't loved me in 2 years so basically anytime we had sex he was using me . I threw his ass out real quick

anyways get back to now so I finally get him to ask me this question. so his question is so would you fuc me? like we'll keep it on the down-low the people were with don't need to know it will be just like once in awhile thing . my answer was what the fuc you're kidding me right. like Hello you f****** had me and you let me go because you wanted to f****** talk to the b**** that you worked with.

you messed up dummy you had me and you lost it. your loss. I am so much happier with the person I'm with and I'm no longer in debt because of him. I just had to post cause I'm completely dumbfounded. and of course I know someone's going to say something but I had already told the guy that I'm with about what happened.