First time

Leslie

So my bf and I have tried multiple times to have sex but it never works out, I believe it’s all in my head because I overthink too much and it’s really hard for me to be relaxed in the moment, bc I right away think of the pain and stuff is there any way that I can numb myself so I don’t feel much pain or any pills ? Please let me know any adivine you may have. I have tried just clearing my mind and relaxing but it’s so hard lol