How to reduce pain from anal sex ?

My boyfriend is pretty big and wants to do anal sex all the time but it hurts. We did it a few times and after we get into it, it feels good, but at the beginning it hurts. He told me to relax and don't tense up and it won't hurt as much but we haven't tried it yet. What can we do or use besides lube to not have so much pain ?

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